LifeSex&More

I have a good amount of friends, only few are very close. I share my life details with them, and everyone is always eager to help out with an advice. Last night I had a conversation with my husband about his lack of participation in our mutual life. As I was lying in bed, thinking, and rerunning the conversation in my mind I had a vision of my brain divided in quarters, and each one was buzzing with its own logic, insisting I listen to it. First quarter had my mom's voice. Why are you doing all the work? Stop, don’t do that, he needs to help you, make a list and divide all chorus, get everyone involved. Marriage is a partnership, no one should be responsible for everything! Delegate! Second quarter had a voice of my NY friends. Tell your son to talk to your husband, both of them should clean the house while you are at work as a surprise. Then reward your husband for it. Surprise him with some beer and dried fish. Just keep talking to him, eventually he will understand. He ...

My name is Dinka Doll. I went to see my friend last night and she suggested that I start a blog. Since its my first blog and my first post I guess I need to start with s simple bio. I just turned 41 a week ago, I work in the office, I am a woman, I model, I am a mom, a wife, a friend, a daughter, a caretaker... when I am at work I call myself OB - stands for an office bitch. Yes I believe I earned that title. I even put it on my business cards, lol. Yes, I did have few people ask me what it stands for. But I dont really want to talk about my work right now as its a bit of a painful subject and I am currently in denial and would like to remain there for a while. Life...well I guess another reason for this blog is to find my voice, even if it is in print. My ex husband always told me how stupid I was, so I just kept quiet, my second husband talks so much, that I dont even have a spot to enter my comments sometimes.